"good morning! i just saw your recent pics online -- Girl, you are tomboyishly hot! BUT, i'm looking for a femme, and you and i look we share a masculine style. :) so, i'm going to pass on tomorrow. good luck with the show! i'm sure it'll be great! (keep me posted on your events, maybe we could be friends) Ü"

i wake up to the above in my inbox.

my only response to her-- no, we probably can't be friends if you have such polarized visions of relationships/ individuals in relationship. some pics on-line made you think that there was only the slight possibility that we could be friends- "maybe?" well, hhhmmmffffhhh! i don't think so. it's not like i was inviting you to our wedding.

masculine energy? clearly she doesn't know me... tomboy maybe. stylish shoes, boxer shorts and hats, yes. lipstick and dresses, no. but masculine?

so the quick start became as quickly the end.

homo-no!no! #1. lesson learned: assume nothing.